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Let the Good Times Roll Handling difference constructively is a great skill for partners to develop. Respecting and enjoying each other when you’re not at odds can be even more important. After all, what are you having the relationship for? You may need to struggle through some hard, hurtful and boring bits. You might learn and grow through doing this, but generally it’s the feel-good things that make relationships attractive.
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Facts & theories about relationshipsWhat makes the difference between a terrific relationship and a miserable one? Experienced couple counsellors share their wisdom. We have a look at what relationship researchers and writers can tell us. About Relationships That Work What Do We Know About Relationships That Work?What makes the difference between a terrific relationship and a miserable one? Experienced couple counsellors share their wisdom. We have a look at what relationship researchers and writers can tell us.
Couple DisagreementsAlmost all couples (78%) experience some ongoing disagreements according to a survey conducted by Relationships Aotearoa. “Even in the happiest, longest lasting of relationships, couples disagree,” said Hilary Smith of Relationships Aotearoa. “And most people do learn to deal with them.”
Relationships SurveyNew Zealand couples are thriving, according to a nationwide relationship survey conducted by counselling agency Relationships Aotearoa. The on-line survey of 1,000 New Zealanders, conducted by AC Nielsen, shows 82% place very high importance on partner relationships and 64% find them very satisfying.
Listening to your partner“It makes such a difference when you really listen and hear what your partner is saying,” says Kerry Babbage, experienced Relationship Counsellor. People like feeling understood and accepted. You don’t have to agree with someone to offer that. Focus your attention on how important this person is to you. If they are important, then it follows that how they feel and what they think are important too.
Simple relationship AdviceEveryone’s got an opinion about relationships, but does Relationship Advice really help? Playwrights, priests, psychologists, writers, counsellors, songwriters, next door neighbours and bartenders, to name but a few, all have something to say about relationships. All are experts with their own particular brand of advice, but does sharing their knowing make our relationships more loving, lasting, satisfying or secure? Probably not!
Sex and RelationshipNew Zealander’s relationships are thriving, and a satisfying sex life is an important contributor, according to a survey released by Relationships Aotearoa. 67% of people said they were satisfied with the sexual aspects of their relationship, while 83% were satisfied with their relationship overall.
New RelationshipA new relationship can be wonderful and scary all at the same time. It can raise some serious challenges and questions. Here we address some of the issues that you may face as you form a new relationship. Use the checklist below to explore whether you – and your relationship – are ready for a long term commitment:
How ready are you for a committed relationship?When you’re wondering whether your relationship is a good candidate for a long-term commitment there’s a lot to take into account. This checklist focuses on maturity in a number of different areas. Answering these questions may help you and your partner to get a fresh perspective on how ready you are right now to make and sustain an ongoing commitment and determine if you are ready to be in a committed relationship with the current person in your life
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